We're in it for long haul, hosts tell Ukrainians

Three women and a man sitting in a row at a wooden table. The woman on the far left has chestnut-brown coloured hair, which is shaped in a short bob. She is wearing a black long-sleeved top and has her left hand under her chin with the elbow resting on the table. Next to her, on the right, is a teenager girl who has long blonde hair with clips on either side of her head. She is wearing a grey long-sleeved top, a black choker necklace and large silver hooped earrings in both ears, a silver bangle and has manicured nails. She is holding a glass, which is half-filled with clear liquid. On the right of the teenager is a mature woman with blonde hair and is wearing a blue polo t-shirt, her left arm is resting on the left of arm of a man sitting next to her on the right. He has grey hair and same coloured beard. He is wearing a blue and black striped top and is resting his right elbow and arm on the table.
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Oksana (left) and her daughter Polina have been building a new life in Grantham while staying with their hosts, Ingrid and Richard Lyon

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A couple from Grantham who have been hosting a Ukrainian family since the Russian invasion have assured them they are "in it for the long haul".

Ingrid Lyon and her husband Richard became hosts to Oksana, her daughter Polina and their cat Fiona, five months after war broke out in Ukraine on 24 February 2022.

The Ukrainian family fled to the UK to seek refuge and the Lyons have pledged they "can stay as long as they need us".

Mrs Lyon, whose mother was a refugee from Indonesia, and her husband are among 62 British hosts in Lincolnshire who have continued to provide accommodation to the same Ukrainian guests since the Homes for Ukraine scheme was launched in March 2022, according to the government.

Four women sitting on a sofa. The one on the far right has blonde hair and is wearing a pink knitted top, a pearl necklace and plastic-framed specs on top of her head. The woman next to her on the left is much older and has grey hair, which is tied back. She is wearing a black, blue and yellow floral dress. The woman on the far left has chestnut-brown coloured bobbed hair and is wearing a beige jumper while holding a black dog on her lap. The woman sitting next to her on the right has black short-cropped hair and is wearing a grey turtle-neck jumper while stroking a black dog, which is on her lap.Image source, Oksana
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Oksana (left) said she feared for the rest of her family who are in Ukraine

More than 1,600 Ukrainian refugees have arrived in Lincolnshire as part of the government scheme.

Oksana and her daughter, along with their cat, arrived at the Grantham hosts' home in July 2022 following a five-month stay in Poland.

"Right from the word go we hit it off, " said Mrs Lyon.

"We made friends and they love our animals - three Labradors. They're very much part of the family."

For Oksana, life in the UK is bittersweet as she fears for the safety of the rest of her family in Ukraine, but she is thankful her daughter now has a better future.

"I read the news every day and I'm anxious, I worry about my family.

"My life is broken. It's destroyed," she said.

Her daughter Polina, who is 17 and studying for her A Levels, described the UK as "my second home where I can build a future" and is thankful she can realise her ambitions of going to university.

"My Ukrainian classmates can't have a proper education because of the sirens or no electricity."

The teenager said she had no plans to return to Ukraine to live.

"All my memories and friends are in Ukraine. But my second home where I have my future is here," Polina said.

Eleven people sitting around an L-shaped table, which is covered with a cloth and has plates of Christmas dinner placed in front of all the diners. Seven are wearing paper gold-coloured crowns. There is a decorated Christmas tree in the corner. All are smiling at the camera.Image source, Ingrid Lyon
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The Ukrainian guests enjoy Christmas dinner with the Lyon family

Mrs Lyon, who has four grandchildren, described her long-term guests as an extension of her own family.

"When we became hosts we decided we were in it for the long haul," she said.

"Polina and Oksana have become part of the family."

Mrs Lyon said she understood the challenges faced by refugees because of her mother's experience.

A sepia-toned photo of Mary Meijer. She is wearing spectacles and a floral top. The front and side sections of her short hair is pinned back and she is smiling at the camera.Image source, Ingrid Lyon
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Mary Meijer and her family fled Indonesia due to a terrorist uprising after World War Two

In 1947, Ingrid's mother, Mary Meijer, along with Mary's Dutch parents and her brother, were forced to leave their home in Indonesia after an uprising.

Ms Meijer's parents, who were Missionary Salvation Army officers, had been running a leper colony in the jungle.

On arrival in the UK, Ms Meijer, who became known as Mrs Selby, spoke no English and struggled to find work but later trained to work as a secretary, Mrs Lyon said.

She said her 94-year-old mother "felt really strongly that the Ukrainian refugees needed more support than just six months".

Her mother, who had been looking forward to meeting the Ukrainian guests, died two weeks before their arrival.

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