'People's remains removed to bury my husband'

A woman on the left with blonde hair is next to a man wearing a dark jacket, shirt and tie. They are sitting down near a wall inside.Image source, Dawn Cotterell
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Dawn Cotterell's world was torn apart when her husband died after collapsing while playing football

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A woman has said she wants justice for her dead husband after hundreds of human bones were seen dumped from his burial plot a day after his funeral.

Dawn Cotterell's husand Roger died in 2022 after collapsing while playing football, following complications from a blood clot.

But a day after the funeral at Tipton Cemetery in the West Midlands, a skip of soil littered with bones and even a skull was spotted near the grave. Site operator Sandwell Council said that in preparing for Mr Cotterell's plot, staff had disturbed human remains from paupers' graves, going on to load them into the container.

The authority has apologised, but Mrs Cotterell says her family's distress continues.

"There was a skull and many, many bones," Mrs Cotterell recalled.

"I was just so traumatised, I just couldn't believe what was going on."

While the authority paid for Mr Cotterell's body to be exhumed so his grave could be lined to isolate it from surrounding soil, his widow said it effectively forced the family to endure the pain of a second funeral.

The incident had also left her questioning what dignity had been afforded to those whose bones were disturbed.

A police inquiry confirmed the remains were from unmarked paupers' graves dating back to the early 1960s.

A skull in the centre of the image, surrounded by soil.Image source, Dawn Cotterell
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Following the funeral, the family noticed a skip full of soil

and stayed for days.

Mrs Cotterell said she was informed there were more than 400 bones removed from her husband's plot.

"It was unbelievable. I just wanted answers from Sandwell Council."

A man with dark hair is in the centre of the image. A trophy is on the left and photos are on the wall on the right.Image source, Dawn Cotterell
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Roger Cotterell and his wife had bought their burial plots in Tipton Cemetery

In October 2022, former MP for Dudley North Marco Longhi wrote to a council manager, describing Mrs Cotterell's experience as "outrageous", adding it "fell very short of minimum dignity standards".

The council since told the BBC it was an isolated incident, a mistake, and it had apologised to the family for the distress they suffered.

A spokesperson said: "We are very sorry to hear the family are still experiencing a difficult time.

"Our bereavement services team worked tirelessly to support the family for many months.

"Thankfully, an approach was eventually agreed with the family, to help achieve an outcome aligned to their wishes."

According to Mrs Cotterell, the exhumation raised further issues.

She said that by inserting a vault to contain his body within the plot, more human remains were found.

A man is next to two children, with a woman behind them. They are on a beach, with water visible behind that.Image source, Dawn Cotterell
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Father-of-two Mr Cotterell had recently become a grandfather before he died

The BBC has seen a document which names eight people whose remains were disturbed. It said they ranged in age from stillborn to 80, with the "public" - or pauper - burials taking place between 1961 and 1963.

Despite ongoing criticism by the family, the authority said it followed correct procedures after the incident and the Local Government Ombudsman agreed.

A council spokesperson added: "We routinely update and maintain burial records in our cemeteries and crematoria, however, are often reliant on information recorded many decades ago, which was the case in this instance.

"With many of the burials in this area not having any known next of kin, we could not identify anyone at the time to contact who may have been affected."

A woman with blonde hair and a black top looking at the camera. The blurred background includes trees and a bush.
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Dawn Cotterell is distraught at the thought relatives of the paupers may be alive and unaware this has happened

Mrs Cotterell said the pain of effectively having a second funeral was unbearable.

She said she was equally distraught at the thought that relatives of the paupers may be alive and unaware what had happened.

"We've had around 15 meetings with Sandwell Council and it's almost like they were making up some of the answers on the spot in front of us."

She told BBC Midlands Today she rejected a final compensation offer of about £8,000 because it came with a non-disclosure agreement which she was not prepared to sign.

"They want to keep this quiet but it's not about the money; it's about justice for my husband, it's the last thing I can do for him now.

"I'm on my own and it's dragging me and my mental health down".

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