'Facebook told me mum's dementia centre will shut'
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The daughter of a woman with dementia said her tears "very quickly turned to anger" after she found out her mother's respite centre was closing from Facebook.
Victoria Bailey's mother Pat attends the Jubilee Centre in New Mills, Derbyshire, three times a week so her father David can have a break from providing full-time care.
Derbyshire County Council has said it is plans to close and sell eight care homes and five day centres in an effort to save money and remodel its services.
Victoria told the BBC: "This is devastating... I don't know how we can tell Mum, she'll be so upset."
Mrs Bailey was diagnosed with the condition in 2016 not long after she retired.
She attends the centre in her home town to participate in a range of activities including arts and crafts, bingo and gardening - which her family said was a "lifeline".
Victoria said she asked her sister to check Facebook where a campaign group had been posting updates and sharing support.
Her sister then found someone had created a post in the group which showed council documents, external which state it plans to close the centre.
The council's cabinet will discuss the plans at a meeting on Thursday 14 November.
"When I first saw this... I did have a little cry but that very quickly turned to anger," she said.
"I felt like everything we put forward and that we've tried to fight for hasn't been considered properly... the council haven't given any indication about what these savings will be from the closures.
"They really haven't thought about the impact on the people and their families.
She added the closures were "short-sighted" and could end up "costing the council more money in the long-run".
Victoria said: "They've said they're putting people at the heart of everything they do and they've just taken away all of my mum's support - it did not feel very personal.
"That little bit of happiness Mum had from going to the centre and doing things that made her smile is going to go, it impacts on how she is at home.
"Being at the centre has allowed her to have fun and enjoy things again whereas now it will be mum and dad, 24/7 on their own."
On how she plans to break the news to her mother, Victoria added: "We're in such a difficult situation, we don't want to lie to her but she's in a place now where whatever you say to her, she doesn't remember - so we'd tell her and the upset would start over again and again - it's hard.
"How do you explain this to someone who will ask you again 10 minutes later?"
Derbyshire County Council said there had been a fall in demand for traditional residential care centres as more people now prefer to remain at home.
It also faces overspends in its social care departments and is set to make £30m worth of cuts to balance its books.
A consultation on the changes has been met with opposition from MPs and families concerned it will impact on the care of the most vulnerable.
The authority said it intended to focus on providing community support beds which gave people a short period of rehabilitation, often after hospital stays, before returning home.
Cabinet member for adult care Natalie Hoy said: "All the research shows that people want to remain in their own homes for as long as possible which has led to a decline in demand for traditional residential care.
"There's also a growing number of people living with dementia, often supported by family carers or friends who work hard to look after them.
"Carers have told us they need consistent and regular support so we need to focus our resources on having the right options to support them.
"This includes long-term specialist dementia care coupled with respite day and night breaks."
Joan Dixon, the Labour group leader on Derbyshire County Council, said the announcement was a "bonfire to services".
“This a very grim day for some of our most vulnerable residents," she said.
"After months of uncertainty, residents in our care homes face an uncertain future with the news that the county council no longer wants to run these homes.
"Some residents have already seen their previous homes cut by the county council."
Which care homes and day centres are closing?
The following care homes are due to be closed and sold off:
Briar Close, Borrowash
Castle Court, Swadlincote
The Grange, Eckington
Lacemaker Court, Long Eaton
The Leys, Ashbourne
New Bassett House, Shirebrook
Rowthorne, Swanwick
Thomas Colledge, Bolsover
Bennerley Fields in Cotmanhay would be repurposed to be used exclusively for community support beds.
The following dementia day centres are also due to close:
Blackwell Day Centre, Bolsover
Fabrick Day Services, Clay Cross
Jubilee Centre, New Mills
Queen's Court, Buxton
Valley View Day Centre, Bolsover
The council plans to keep open:
Eccles Fold Resource Centre, Chapel-en-le-Frith
Hasland Resource Centre, Chesterfield
Shirevale Resource Centre, Shirebrook
A further consultation will be held on the future role of:
Florence Shipley, Heanor
Whitestones, Chapel-en-le-Frith
Meadow View, Matlock
Oaklands, Swadlincote
Ada Belfield, Belper
Staveley Centre, Chesterfield
Thomas Fields, Buxton
The plans will be discussed by the full cabinet on 14 November.
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