'My grandparents fell in love 'below stairs' at a big house'

Alf Edwards and Caroline Palmer were married during World War One - but only had three short years together before Alf died in 1919
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As the clouds of war gathered over Europe, a "below stairs" love story was beginning at a country house.
Two servants at Brodsworth Hall, near Doncaster, bonded over an interest in photography and married in 1916.
Kitchen maid Caroline Palmer was warned that her love for valet Alf Edwards was likely to end in early widowhood, but the pair had two sons during a union that lasted three years.
Now the house's owners, English Heritage, have been gifted a treasure trove of photographs, letters and documents about their life together after they were donated by the couple's grandson.

Brodsworth Hall was built between 1861 and 1863 for Charles Sabine Thellusson
Caroline went into service at Brodsworth, the seat of the Thellusson family, in 1906, leaving her home in Northamptonshire. Seven years later Alf moved from London to take up a post as estate owner Charles Thellusson's personal valet.
They met when Alf began to use the hall's kitchens as a makeshift studio in which to develop photographs he had taken. Many were scenes of life on the estate and the large number of staff who worked there at the time.
His poor health meant he was unable to join the forces when war broke out in 1914, and Caroline was cautioned that their marriage could be a short one.

English Heritage described the donated items as an "extremely rare hoard documenting the lives of ordinary people"
They had their wedding in 1916, by which time Caroline had become cook at the house, although she had to leave her position as a married woman.
As other male servants left for the war, Alf took on other duties, including taking charge of the estate's shoots and gunroom and acting as chauffeur.
Their sons John and Harold were born before Alf died from tuberculosis in 1919.

Is is thought that Alf Edwards acquired a camera during a trip to the eastern US with his employer in 1914
Despite being servants, the couple were liked and respected by the Thellussons - Charles, who died in the same year, was John's godfather and his wife Constance wrote a letter consoling Caroline when both were widowed.
After Alf's death, Caroline returned to Northamptonshire with some financial help from the Thellussons towards her sons' futures.
Tragedy struck again when John died aged 15 from an infected insect bite.

Caroline Palmer went into service at Brodsworth Hall as a kitchen maid before being promoted to cook
Caroline became a cook in one of the boarding houses at Oundle School, and in later life moved in with her younger son Harold and his wife. They recorded many of her memories in note form before her death in 1968.

Items donated by grandson Gordon Edwards include Alf's Eastman Kodak camera, which was used to take photographs of Brodsworth staff, gardens and the hall exterior
Her grandson, Gordon Edwards, contacted English Heritage to offer them the collection of items telling the story of Alf and Caroline's lives at Brodsworth Hall.
He said: "We're so pleased to be able to donate these objects so they can continue to be cared for, shared with the public, and help to tell the important stories of those people below stairs who lived and worked at Brodsworth Hall."
Eleanor Matthews, English Heritage's curator of collections and interiors, said it was extremely rare to have a collection relating to the lives of servants survive.
"Alf's photographs are incredibly important to the history of the site and have provided us with the earliest image of staff at the estate - hopefully in time we will be able identify them all.
"These beautiful, poignant items tell a story largely unknown to us until now and, thanks to this donation, we are able to add another layer of understanding to the rich fabric of Brodsworth's history."
While the bulk of the collection is being catalogued, a number of items have gone on public display at the hall, including Alf's camera, pipes, wartime registration cards, postcards, and Caroline's watch.
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