'Marvellous friendships' made at carers' group

A group of eight people sat around a table, smiling as they pose for a photograph at a restaurant. They are all aged middle aged or older.Image source, Cirencester Mental Health Carers Support Group
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Members of the group often meet up outside of the monthly gatherings thanks to the friendships they have formed

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A support group for carers of people with mental illnesses has led to "marvellous friendships", those involved have said.

The Cirencester Mental Health Carers' Support Group aims to make carers of loved ones living with schizophrenia, addiction, or personality disorders, among other mental illnesses, feel "not alone".

Robina, who cares for her son who has psychosis, said being part of groups, including the one in Cirencester, had given her "great strength and lots of fun".

Kathy Holmes, a support worker, said even long-time carers were sometimes unaware of what help was available to them.

The group meets at Cirencester Baptist Church on the second Tuesday of every month between 13:00 and 15:00 GMT.

Alan, who facilitates the group, said caring for someone with an enduring mental health illness or complex emotional needs could leave someone feeling "isolated".

"We have speakers that come along, they talk to us about the different medications, what they can do for people with enduring mental health issues, and you won't be alone," he said.

"It will also provide you with a little bit of respite from caring for the person that you love, it's a couple of hours each month and you'll get a lot of information and a lot of friendliness and a lot of empathy from other members of the group."

'Couldn't choose better'

Robina, who lives near Cirencester, said her son first started struggling aged 14, and was now a "very lovely, well man of 40".

"I've been through different carers' groups, all of which have given me great strength and lots of fun knowing very nice people," she said.

"It's led to a path of friendships I mightn't have had with other groups of people, but then I've found many people who love playing tennis and walking like I do.

"Marvellous friendships, I couldn't choose better."

Two older men and two older women stand in front of a purple "BBC Radio Gloucestershire" backdrop, smilingImage source, Cirencester Mental Health Carers Support Group
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Kathy Holmes, second from right, a support worker, says the group provides "vital" support

Kathy Holmes said carers were often "relieved" to find out there was support for them, too.

"It's so vital because if you feel supported and well as a carer, you're going to be able to support the person you care for better," she said.

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