'Dyslexia brings more possibilities than most imagine'

A selfie of Flossy and her dad Mike smiling at the camera, standing in a living room in front of a doorway and a framed painting. Flossie has straight blonde hair and green eyes, and her dad has short grey hair and is wearing a dark t-shirt.
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Mike Calnan is encouraging his daughter, who also has dyslexia, to "celebrate the positives and nurture them"

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A father who was branded "thick" and a "dunce" at school because of his dyslexia said his condition brings "more possibilities than most people can imagine".

Mike Calnan, 70, from Stroud in Gloucestershire, said there had been no support for children who had the condition when he attended school in the 1960s.

He is now encouraging his daughter Flossy, who also has the condition, to embrace its positives including heightened creativity, problem-solving and visual abilities.

Gloucestershire Dyslexia Association said it was important to harness and nurture "the superpowers" dyslexic people had "so they don't feel like failures".

The NHS estimates up to one in 10 people in the UK have have some degree of the learning difficulty, which causes problems with reading, writing and spelling.

But Mr Calnan said "there was no name for dyslexia" when he was young and diagnoses were rare.

Mike Calnan holding his infant daughter Flossy, who is wearing a colourful towel onesie covered in apples. She is blonde with blue eyes and is hugging her dad over his shoulders, who is wearing dark sunglasses and has grey hair. They are beside a pool with lots of sun loungers and straw parasols. Image source, Mike Calnan
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Mr Calnan said his dyslexia had affected how teachers treated him at school in the 1960s

"The only thing that the teachers did recognise was whether you were able or not to keep up with the rest of the class," he said.

"If you weren't, you were branded a 'dunce' or 'thick'. Those were terms said to me."

As he grew older, increased research and awareness meant Mr Calnan eventually "realised how [his] brain works" and found it to be a "wonderful thing".

"I find it incredibly helpful and very enjoyable," he said. "It brings more possibilities than most people imagine and it's hard to explain."

Mr Calnan gave an example of recalling memories in 3D, like a "moving technicolour film of things I'd seen decades ago".

Mike Calnan with his young daughter Flossy. He is wearing a pink pinstripe shirt with sunglasses on his head, and is smiling at the camera with his arms wrapped around Flossy's shoulders. She is wearing a green patterned top and has her blonde hair tied back into a pony tail with a fringe. They are standing in a garden on a sunny day, surrounded by lots of greenery and winding gravel paths.Image source, Mike Calnan
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Flossy Calnan was diagnosed with dyslexia during her GCSE exams, aged 15

His daughter Flossy said she felt "lucky" to grow up in a generation where she was allowed extra time in exams and lenience with spelling errors.

"Now I think dyslexia is starting to come into a positive light. It makes me really creative and kind of gives you out-of-the-box thinking," she said.

"I might come at something from a different angle, but not many people may have considered that it may actually be the best way round to solving this problem."

However, Ms Calnan found being pigeonholed into a "bottom maths set" at school knocked her confidence - even after scoring 82% on a test, higher than most in the top set.

"Despite having the option to move up, I put myself in the bottom set because being dyslexic and growing up with that, that kind of felt like where I belonged," she said.

Claire Penketh, who chairs the Gloucestershire Dyslexia Association, agreed despite its perks, living with a neurodiverse condition "comes with its challenges".

The charity, which has been running for 50 years, raises money for schools to provide dyslexic students with special educational needs and disabilities provision.

"It's about finding the superpowers that dyslexics have and bringing those out, and giving them more self esteem so they don't feel like they're failures," she added.

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