End-of-life patient gets married from hospital bed

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Philip Pettit and Carol Lee said "I do" at Midland Metropolitan University Hospital in Smethwick

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A woman receiving palliative care has finally said "I do" to her partner of 42 years from her hospital bed.

Carol Lee, 75, married Philip Pettit, 73, on 20 March at Midland Metropolitan University Hospital in Smethwick, where she is being treated for inoperable stomach cancer.

"Philip always wanted to get married. It's the one thing I can do for him before I die," she said.

Mr Pettit added: "I feel like the luckiest man in the world and I should have done this 40 years ago. She looks so beautiful."

A group of people are outside. An elderly woman at the front of the group is in a wheelchair. Some members of the group are in smart clothing such as suits and some are in hospital uniform. The scene is one of joy and celebration, with people smiling at the camera and what looks like confetti in the air.Image source, Sandwell and West Birmingham NHS Trust
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The couple tied the knot surrounded by friends, family and hospital staff

The couple first met on a night out with friends.

"We were at a little club and we had a dance and got on really well," remembered Mrs Pettit.

"We lived together but never really thought about getting married – we were very happy together."

Palliative care nurse Jo Clews said: "The ceremony was beautiful. We played her song, that she wanted, which was 'Loving You', which was very touching.

"And she'd got her family and friends around her."

After the ceremony, Mrs Pettit, who has now been moved to a hospice for her final days, said: "It was the best day of my life. I was strangely nervous in the morning.

"But I'm happy now."

A close-up of two hands, both of which appear to belong to quite elderly people. The hands are clasped and the woman's other hand is resting on the man's wrist. Both are wearing wedding rings.Image source, Sandwell and West Birmingham NHS Trust
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The couple said their vows surrounded by family and friends

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