'It is nice to feel like you are not being judged'
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Parents of children with special educational needs and disabilities (SEND) in Bedfordshire have praised a group that has been set up in a cafe to support them.
Rachel Lenton, who runs Marston Beans, external in Marston Moretaine and has a child with additional needs, said she wanted to "listen to what people were going through" and create "a group where people can come and vent".
The group supports families whose children are in the SEND systems in both Bedford Borough and Central Bedfordshire Council areas.
One of them, Becki, who has a seven year old boy with ADHD, said it was the "only coffee shop she could bring her dysregulated child to" who is "literally climbing on the tables and throwing things and be told it was ok".
Becki added that "when you say something here, people just give you that knowing look and are not trying to solve your problems with answers all the time which can be upsetting".
The BBC reported how Central Bedfordshire Council has had to deal with an increase in demand for SEND provision. Independent Leader Adam Zerny told the BBC the number of children requiring SEND provision nationally was about 1.6 million, and "that's increased by 100,000 in a year".
The authority has opened a new special needs block at Sandy Secondary School and Mr Zerny said it was looking at all provision options when it sets its 2025/26 budget which will be agreed in February.
Kayleigh has only visited the group twice but said it was "really nice to come somewhere and feel like you are not being judged and you can say how rough your day has been".
Kristina does not have an Education Health and Care Plan (EHCP) for her daughter yet, but said "everyone is on different parts of the journey so can offer support and advice".
Emma, who has a daughter in a mainstream school with an autism provision, said: "Everyone is just lovely and we chat and there is no judgement."
She added that "the group gets it and are there with you".
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