Carers 'don't recognise' what they have become

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Campaigners say it takes people too long to realise they have become carers

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People acting as unpaid carers for elderly or disabled relatives take too long to identify as such, according to a leading charity.

Carers UK said a lack of realisation is one of the biggest obstacles to carers accessing the support that is available

Ann Jeffrey, from Crawley, in West Sussex, gave up work to care for her mother, who has dementia and has been housebound since the pandemic of 2020.

"I would have qualified as a carer a long time before I assumed I was," said Ms Jeffrey.

Helen Walker, chief executive of Carers UK, said: "On average it takes two years for people to realise they have become a carer.

"It's very difficult to get support, but even more so if you don't recognise yourself as a carer in the first place."

The charity estimates there are 5.7m unpaid carers in the UK, and campaigns on their behalf, as well as offering advice and practical help.

Ms Jeffrey said: "It is what it is. My mum deserves this.

"She's always been there for me. She needs help now and there isn't anyone else who can do it."

Ms Jeffrey now claims carers' allowance, which anyone caring for a sick or disabled person for at least 35 hours a week qualifies for.

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