Children's book on pet loss inspired by Wilbur
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A bereavement specialist has written a pair of children's books about how to cope with the death of a pet after she lost her own dog.
Lorna Vyse, from Norwich, started the project because she felt there was a lack of help supporting young people through this type of grief.
She believed some children were sheltered from conversations about the death of a pet, and said the book attempted to give them an "honest" understanding about loss and bereavement.
The author has 30 years' experience in the field and has previously released a collection of books to support children after the loss of a parent.
Wilbur, a labrador cross, was 11 when he died of a brain tumour.
Ms Vyse said her family was "completely heartbroken" when it happened and "it was incredibly painful saying goodbye to him".
It inspired Saying Goodbye to Wilbur, a story about a boy who adopts a dog that then dies.
Ms Vyse has also released an accompanying workbook, Saying Goodbye: My Pet Memory Journal, aimed at prompting children to reflect on the death of their pets.
"I have always believed that children and young people [are] sheltered from conversations about illness, death and dying," she said.
It happened "even more so when it comes to pets".
She added: "We always say 'We are putting a pet to sleep', and that is a confusing message for young people."
Ms Vyse said she hoped children would get "an honest and real understanding about what happens at the end of a pet’s life" after reading the book.
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- Published7 April 2023