Sexual violence adviser harassed at Cardiff-Swansea football game
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Wales' national adviser on sexual violence has described how she was sexually harassed by a man at a football match.
Johanna Robinson said it happened at the Cardiff City-Swansea City Championship match on Saturday night.
She said a man sitting behind her repeatedly grabbed her after she had told him to stop.
Cardiff City director Steve Borley said the club will investigate the incident and include the police if appropriate.
Ms Robinson, who has previously been a season ticket holder at the club, said she was sitting alone at the match after giving her original ticket away.
"Almost as soon as I sat down the man behind me started tapping me, trying to talk in my ear and crouching over my shoulder," said Ms Robinson, whose title is Wales' National Adviser for Violence Against Women, Gender Based Violence, Domestic Abuse and Sexual Violence.
"And then it just increased... the way he was touching me got stronger so it felt more like he was grabbing my shoulders, my arms, and my waist," she told BBC Wales.
Ms Robinson added: "He just kept doing it and doing it... it made me feel unsafe, he made me feel unsafe.
"He was in my physical space, he was touching me inappropriately - I didn't know if he was going to go further with the touching but it didn't really matter. I just didn't like it."
She said she then turned around and asked the man to stop touching her, to which he responded angrily and looked at her in "disbelief".
She said the touching did then stop temporarily, until just before half-time when he tried to persuade her to go and have a drink with him.
"He tapped me on the shoulder again... and said to me very clearly that he hadn't done anything, that he wasn't a 'monster man'," she said.
"He was really forceful about that, that was his way of excusing it and moving on... that I should go for a drink with him because he wasn't a monster man... it's just ridiculous."
Ms Robinson said she then went to the stewards to report the incident and ask to be moved to another seat, which she eventually was after being taken to a supervisor.
However, she said the supervisor explained how difficult it was for her to be moved to another seat and that there wasn't a process in place for incidents such as this.
After posting about her experience on social media Ms Robinson said the Cardiff City director Steve Borley had been in touch, which she "really appreciates".
"I've had great support so far. My point is that it simply isn't acceptable. We need to do things so that it isn't down to the woman to do things to defend herself.
"I would encourage women to speak out, I would encourage them to go to the steward... but the responsibility is on the clubs."
She added that it should not be the responsibility of women to seek out the resources that can help keep them safe, such as a hotline for reporting inappropriate behaviour.
"They should be made available to us, the messaging to us should be clear," she said.
Roopa Vyas, director of Her Game Too Cymru - a campaign tackling sexist abuse in sport - said Ms Robinson's experience was all too common, which is why Her Game Too exists.
"We've just had enough... it's such a shame, despite people working to raise awareness of such a horrible thing, its still so prevalent and especially at the football," she said.
"It's so common sometimes that even as a woman, you don't really register it as sexual harassment until you speak to someone... that's not okay," added Ms Vyas.
She says Her Game Too are working with football clubs on implementing systems for reporting such behaviour, and that for clubs that do have them the main focus is raising awareness.
Mr Borley has apologised to Ms Robinson for her experience, and said the club will "fully investigate the incident and include the police if appropriate".
Cardiff City said it has contacted Ms Robinson and is investigating the incident.
A club spokesperson said any supporter who feels threatened or is concerned by the behaviour of others is encouraged to contact the club via the reporting hotline at the earliest opportunity.
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