100 Women 2014: Iraq violence took my men
In much of Iraq, violence - often sectarian-based - can strike at any time.
Umm Ahmed, a woman living in a rural area, was left supporting her entire extended family after her son, husband and two of his brothers were kidnapped and disappeared forever.
Her happy family life vanished overnight, and she was left as sole provider.
She told the BBC her story for the 100 Women season.
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