'Amazing dad' died when earache turned into meningitis

Josh Vickery, his wife and children Arthur, Henry and Elsie pose for a picture by a white wall background. Image source, Jess Vickery
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Jess Vickery said her husband Josh was the "best man I've ever known"

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The family and friends of a man who died from meningitis after suffering with an earache said he was a “pillar of the community".

Josh Vickery, 40, a long-serving player and coach for Bridgwater Cricket Club in Somerset, died from the disease after developing an ear infection, which just “didn’t go away.”

Now, his friends and former team-mates are cycling to Somerset from Paris in his honour, to raise money for Meningitis Now.

His wife Jess said she was “so incredibly proud” of the group for the challenge, which feels like a “big hug to the family".

The dad-of-three became unwell in May 2021 with an ear infection which “lingered", Mrs Vickery said.

“He had a couple of series of antibiotics but it just didn’t go.

"All of a sudden alongside the earache he had a really severe headache and just sort of slept.

'Be aware of symptoms'

“That very quickly was the start of the meningitis. He went to hospital and in two days they said his brain had shut down.

“He went into ICU and they said there was nothing they could do," she said.

Mrs Vickery is urging people to be aware of the symptoms of meningitis, external, which include a high temperature, a blotchy rash that does not fade when a glass is rolled over it, and a sensitivity to bright lights.

However, she warned that some people do not show all the signs.

"Josh was the ultimate family man, he did everything for us.

"He was a young, fit, healthy, sporty 40-year-old, still playing cricket, pushing all of his kids into trying every sport possible," she said.

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A group of 14 cyclists have embarked on the journey from Paris to Somerset in Mr Vickery's honour

A group of 14 friends embarked on a “gruelling” 317-mile charity cycle this week in memory of the “much-loved” of Mr Vickery.

Mike Coles, who was a close friend to Mr Vickery, said it had been “inspiring” to see all the support they had received on their fundraising page, called 'Cycle for the Vicar'.

“He would absolutely love what we are doing now and would have been a major part of it if he was still with us," said Mr Coles.

“He was the life and soul of the party and he was an amazing son, husband, father, brother, uncle, and friend to so many people, which is why everyone is loving being a part of keeping his memory living on."

The group hope to complete the ride in five days and are expected to arrive back in Somerset on Saturday. A family fundraising event will then take place at Bridgwater Cricket Club.

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