'A charity gave my son a childhood in hospital'

Connor sitting up in a hospital bed and cuddling a grey fluffy blanket. He is holding a Maui toy from Disney's Moana movie, and watching something on a blue iPad propped up in front of him, next to a carton of apple juice. He is smiling at the camera with a feeding tube in his right nostril, secured to his cheek with a large blue plaster.Image source, Family Handout
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Connor spent his fourth birthday on a ward being treated for leukaemia

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A mother has raised nearly £6,000 for a charity that enabled her son to "have a childhood" while being treated for leukaemia.

Four-year-old Connor, from Portishead in Somerset, was diagnosed in February. He is currently cancer-free but is still having chemotherapy to prevent it from returning.

Last weekend, his mother Lucy Radford took part in a 24-hour relay to raise money for Bristol Children's Hospital charity, the Grand Appeal.

She said the organisation had provided her family with endless toys and "distractions", allowing Connor carefree moments of "normality".

Connor wearing comfy orange shorts and grey socks with a green dinosaur on them. He is sitting on the floor of a hospital ward, playing with an interactive wooden ship on the wall, spinning the cogs and lifting handles.Image source, Family Handout
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Connor plays with one of the toys at Bristol Children's Hospital

Connor spent his fourth birthday in hospital having a spinal tap, where a needle is inserted between the bones of the spine to collect fluid for testing.

To create a special memory, the Grand Appeal fulfilled his birthday wish by delivering a Jurassic Park Lego set to his bedside.

"It might seem like a small gesture, but in those moments, it meant everything," said Mrs Radford.

"It's a distraction, not just for the children but for the parents too.

"While they're playing, the adults can sit and talk about what's going on and how they're coping."

A selfie showing Connor wearing a grey patterned raincoat with a feeding tube in his right nostril, secured with a large plaster with lorries on it. He is sitting beside his mum Lucy, who has short dark red hair and is smiling at the camera. They appear to be sitting in a play park with bark chippings on the ground and colourful bunting hanging behind them.Image source, Family Handout
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Lucy Radford said the "distractions" provided by the charity allowed her space to process her son's illness

While having chemotherapy, Connor was also able to play with the ward's jukebox, toys, puzzles, games and books.

But Mrs Radford said Connor's illness was "a lot to take on".

"No parent should have to deal with their child being diagnosed with leukaemia, or any other illness," she said. "We just take each day at a time really."

More than 60 people took part in the fundraising relay, which was hosted by Portishead Running Club, of which Lucy is a member.

A large group of people standing below an inflatable red and black finish line. Many people are wearing blue Grand appeal branded t-shirts, and Connor can be seen in the foreground holding a grey donation bucket. Everyone is smiling and posing for a picture as the light turns orange at dusk.Image source, Portishead Running Club
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Members of Portishead Running Club organised a 24-hour fundraising relay

The club quickly surpassed its initial target of £2,000, raising £6,000.

The money will go towards state-of-the-art equipment, music, play and art therapy, family accommodation, and making the clinical environment more child-friendly.

After Connor's diagnosis, his mother said she thought the weeks-long stay in hospital would be "really hard".

"But so much effort and funding goes into making the hospital feel less like a hospital and more like a place of comfort and care, for both children and families," she said.

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