Woman who fled Afghanistan finds safety and opportunity in NI

Zarifa Asghari stands in front of some trees. She is facing the camera and smiling. She is wearing a jacket and a white Hijab.
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Zarifa Asghari fled Afghanistan in 2021

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It has been three years since the Taliban took control of Kabul and most of Afghanistan.

On 15 August 2021, the group seized power following the withdrawal of western military forces.

Since then, it has restricted the rights of women and girls to work, learn, and go out in public.

For Zarifa Asghari, who fled the country, Northern Ireland has become a place of safety and opportunity.

And now is success in the music world on the cards?

Real World studios, which was founded by former Genesis lead singer Peter Gabriel, has invited Zarifa to record an EP.

Zarifa has embraced her love of music since moving to Northern Ireland.

In Afghanistan, the Taliban introduced strict rules banning music from being played at social gatherings.

Zarifa has taken advantage of her freedom to express herself creatively and earlier this year wrote a song titled Afghan Girl.

The song, which was performed by friend Eva Kearney at the Oh Yeah Music Centre, captured the attention of the studios founded by music legend Peter Gabriel.

"Art is really important for the world," Zarifa said.

"I hope I can touch people's hearts with my music."

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Taliban forces standing guard at a roadside in September 2021

Zarifa was just 17 when she made the decision to leave her home country months after the Taliban took power.

In Afghanistan, girls are banned from education beyond the age of 11.

Zarifa, who dreams of studying medicine or politics at university, felt there was no future for her in Afghanistan.

'like a scary scene from a movie, but it was reality'

"People were very scared," she told BBC News NI's Good Morning Ulster programme.

"The police were controlling the airport and wouldn’t let people in. It was like a scary scene from a movie, but it was reality.

"We left at midnight.

"We were supposed to cross the border the first night, but couldn't because the Taliban were there."

Zarifa, along with a dozen or so others fleeing the country, walked hours through the mountains in order to cross the border.

The group contained young children, as well as a woman who was eight months pregnant.

Zarifa escaped to Pakistan, where she remained for eight months.

She then moved to Cardiff, which she described as a culture shock.

"I never imagined I'd leave Afghanistan," she said.

"There is a saying - 'home sweet home'. I spent almost my entire life in Afghanistan."

Zarifa is hopeful that international pressure can help make life more bearable for women and girls living in Afghanistan.

"I think that the world could do more, and put them [the Taliban] under pressure to give women more rights, so that they can go to university, so that they can study and work in the community, because women are half of the community."

'The old me is in Afghanistan'

Two months after arriving in Cardiff, Zarifa moved again, this time to Northern Ireland.

For Zarifa, Northern Ireland has offered a new beginning.

She speaks warmly of her new home, and the welcome she has received.

"I love a lot of things about Northern Ireland. The people are very welcoming, and friendly," she said.

However, Zarifa also admits that she is yet to "find herself here".

She is still getting used to living away from Afghanistan, and misses her home country.

"I've lost myself. I left the old me in Afghanistan," she said.

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Eva Kearney and Zarifa Asghari performed at the Oh Yeah Music Centre in Belfast

It's safe to say that this year looks brighter for Zarifa.

Earlier this year, she was reunited with her parents, who finally managed to escape Afghanistan for Northern Ireland.

Seeing her parents for the first time in more than two years was "really emotional"," she added.