Hull City supports fan whose dad is terminally ill

Sophie Griffiths looking at the camera holding a letter with a Hull City logo at the top. She has long black straight hair with a side parting. She is wearing a black coat and a yellow sweater. Her nails are painted black. She is sitting on a black sofa inside an office-like space. Image source, BBC/Jasmine Lowe
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Sophie Griffiths, 30, has been going to Hull City games with her dad since she was seven

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A lifelong Hull City fan, whose father has been told he has three months to live, has received a letter of support from the club.

Sophie Griffiths, 30, from Hull, who has been going to matches with her dad for more than 20 years, was given a letter from the team's manager Sergej Jakirović after sharing her story online.

Her father, Owen Griffiths, has advanced Alzheimer's and was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in the summer. In September, he was told he has three months left to live.

"It's something so little but it has meant so much to me and to my family to feel a bit valued and supported during what is a difficult time," Ms Griffiths said.

Ms Griffiths has been going to Hull City matches with her father, who was a steward at the games, and grandfather since she was seven years old.

"We'd pick him [her grandad] up and take him in his wheelchair and park up. Me and my dad would sit together just in front of him in the south stand," she said,

"When my grandad couldn't go anymore, it was just me and my dad."

A letter on white paper. It has a Hull City FC badge at the top. It reads: "To Sophie, We are so very sorry to hear about your dad. Life can be so very cruel. We are all thinking of you, your dad and your family during this incredibly difficult time. All the staff and players are standing by your side. We are grateful for the support you give us, and we are here to support you too. It is important to always remember and cherish the special times we share with our loved ones. Hold on to those memories of you and your dad watching the Tigers together. Every time you watch us play, your dad will be with you."Image source, BBC/Jasmine Lowe
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The letter was given to Ms Griffiths by a member of staff during Saturday's game

Ms Griffiths, whose father has been at Priory Grange care home on Hessle Road since February, now takes a pocket-sized photo of her and her dad to the games.

"I'm trying to just find ways to find comfort in what we've got left because it's quite difficult with him not really knowing what's going on around him," she said.

"It's how I can find comfort and it's through football - through Hull City."

Ms Griffiths said she holds the photo up at the games, takes a picture of it and shows it to her father to show "he's still there in some way".

"He loves it. He'll say, 'oh it's me'... he's recognising that it's him and me at the football," she said.

A hand with silver rings and nails painted black holding a photo of Sophie Griffiths and her father. They are both wearing Hull City FC kit and are stood in a corridor. Sophie's dad has a bald head and is wearing black glasses.
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Ms Griffiths now takes a photo of her and her father to Hull City games

Ms Griffiths said she posted the picture of the photo online to share the impact that football has on family and friends.

During Saturday's game against Charlton, Ms Griffiths was approached by a member of the club's staff who handed her a letter from Jakirović.

In the letter, Jakirović wrote: "Hold on to those memories of you and your dad watching the Tigers together. Every time you watch us play, your dad will be with you."

Ms Griffiths said it was "something so unexpected but so heartfelt at the same time".

"That's mine and my dad's thing - Hull City - and to not be doing that with him but feel supported by the club during this time, it's just meant so much."

Mr Griffiths has left a copy of the letter in her father's room.

"He knows it's about him and it's for him really. He's pretty chuffed."

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