'I'm so happy my son could attend my wedding day'

A group of six people is standing in front of a white draped backdrop decorated with a wooden arch and a floral arrangement of white and green flowers. One person is wearing a white wedding gown with lace detailing and holding hands with a child in a wheelchair covered with a cream blanket. Another person is dressed in a gray suit and holding a small child in formal attire. A person in a bright red floor-length gown is holding a bouquet of flowers. Two other individuals are wearing matching beige shirts and dark trousers. The setting appears to be indoors on a striped carpet.Image source, David Craig, Connect Photography
Image caption,

Oliver was able to join the whole family, including his two brothers

  • Published

A mum had her wish come true when her eight-year-old son who requires 24-hour care watched her walk down the aisle - after his carers made special arrangements for him to attend.

Samantha Dolan, 33, from Wigan, told of her delight after son Oliver arrived dressed for the occasion to celebrate with the rest of the family.

Oliver requires full-time care and struggles with his movement, sight and breathing after being treated for meningitis and a hypoxic brain injury when he was just four weeks old.

"It meant the world to have Oliver there at our wedding," the newly-wed Mrs Dolan said.

A child is seated in a black wheelchair, covered with a cream-colored textured blanket. The child is wearing a formal outfit with a white shirt and dark vest. Around the wheelchair, adults dressed in formal attire are visible, including one holding a glass of champagne. The floor has a striped carpet, and white drapes are visible in the background.Image source, David Craig, Connect Photography
Image caption,

Eight-year-old Oliver was able to attend after special arrangements were made

'Chilled and happy'

The mother-of-three married Christopher Dolan, 37, at Holland Hall in Skelmersdale, Lancashire, alongside Oliver and his brothers Jacob, 12, and Benjamin, two.

"While Oliver only attended the wedding for a couple of hours, everyone loved him being there," she said.

"He's such a very chilled and happy boy. And although he can't speak, he loves the sound of voices and can communicate in his own way - with a smile or a noise. He loves colours too.

"Oliver and his little brother Benjamin both wore matching outfits at the wedding - knitted jumpers and black jeans - it was perfect."

Mrs Dolan said it can be difficult to find care for Oliver due to his complex needs but his carers at Derian House children's hospice in Chorley went "above and beyond" to make the day special.

"Derian made it possible for me to spend my special day as a mum as opposed to being a carer," she said.

"It can be hard to find childcare for a complex child like Oliver, and we are so grateful for their help.

"They went above and beyond by planning his respite care a year in advance when the wedding was booked, and arranged the extra staffing so that they could bring him to the wedding.

"It was a relief to know he would be cared for and made comfortable.

"They also made us a wedding card with Oliver and sent a gift home with Oliver's foot print in a mould."

A person is gently adjusting a cream-colored blanket over a child seated in a black wheelchair. The wheelchair has a colorful patterned side panel. The background features white drapes and a striped carpet, suggesting an indoor event setting.Image source, David Craig, Connect Photography
Image caption,

Oliver's mother said it was a "relief" to know her son was cared for throughout

Catherine Randall, Derian House's chief nurse, said: "We are so happy that Oliver was able to be part of his mum's very special day.

"Weddings are such magical moments for families and at Derian House we do everything we can to help make these occasions possible so our families can create cherished memories together."

Get in touch

Tell us which stories we should cover in Greater Manchester

Listen to the best of BBC Radio Manchester on Sounds and follow BBC Manchester on Facebook, external, X, external, and Instagram, external. You can also send story ideas via Whatsapp to 0808 100 2230.

Related internet links