'Save vital day centre for wife who has dementia'

Media caption,

Rob Mariner has started a petition to save the Blandford Day Centre that is used by his wife who has dementia

  • Published

A man whose wife has dementia has launched a petition to save her local day care centre.

Rob Mariner's wife, Mary, has early-onset dementia and he says the services "are vitally important" to her.

Dorset Council is reorganising the way adult services are delivered in the county.

Blandford Community Centre is one of six centres at risk of closing as the council looks to move to what it calls a Hub and Spokes model.

"Mary was diagnosed with Alzheimer's about seven years ago," Mr Mariner explains.

"She comes here twice a week, Tuesdays and Thursdays, and for both of us, it's a huge benefit.

"She meets friends, they have tea and coffee, go for walks when the weather is nice."

Blandford Community Centre sign outside a brick building. There is a man wearing a yellow t-shirt in front of glass doors. There is a low hedge and a tree with green leaves. There are three cars parked. One is white, one blue and one black.
Image caption,

The centre in Blandford may close with services being relocated to Sturminster Newton

Mr Mariner says Dorset Council's plans to move services to a hub at Sturminster Newton is "not an acceptable alternative".

"It's a 20 to 25-minute drive on a good day. It would make it very, very difficult, if not impossible, because we're talking about an hours' round trip to drop her off," he says.

"It's not just the day care, the company, there's meals on wheels happening, there's other groups that meet here, it's a warm space in the winter, people come in, meet their friends, have a hot meal in the canteen, it's all very important really.

"It affects our lives greatly. If it were to close, it threatens my ability to work.

"I don't know what we would do without this day centre. It's a vital facility, it's a vital building."

Lorraine,  former care worker, stands outside the centre. She is wearing a white wool cardigan and an animal print top. She is standing outside next to a hedge and tree. You can see a car and red brick home behind.
Image caption,

Lorraine Hawley, friend of the community centre where she worked for more than twenty years

Lorraine Hawley worked as a carer in Blandford for more than 20 years and says she is still a "friend" of the centre.

"Many people use it for all different services," she says.

"This is a vital day centre. If we didn't have it, then people would be isolated, they would lose friendships, they would lose support. The effects on the families as well, they would lose what they need to do in the day as well.

"We have disabled facilities, an enclosed garden for people with dementia, an outside garden for anybody who wants to use it.

"It's just a vital vital service and we need to keep it".

Dorset Council launched a three-month consultation in March on changing the services it delivers.

It said: "We've been encouraged by the robust debate and interest in our consultation process.

"At Blandford, we explored with people how connected the centre was to the communities in Blandford, and the way in which the centre supported a wider set of community connections.

"The engagement and community spirit was very much evident. As a result, we are now re-evaluating our current proposals for the site.

"Service users, their families, and carers, play a crucial role in helping us identify the best ways to support people who use the Blandford Day Centre or have additional needs within the community.

"We strongly encourage users to participate in the consultation process - it really is helping us to develop, change and improve our ideas for the future of the services and centres."

It said no final decision had been reached on service provision – but that "the conversations we had in Blandford will mean it is highly likely to be a different proposal that comes forward".

The petition launched by Mr Mariner gathered more than 750 signatures in less than 24 hours and been supported by several local councillors and Dorset North Conservative MP, Simon Hoare.

The Dorset Council consultation closes on 9 June.

Get in touch

Do you have a story BBC Dorset should cover?