'How I told my children and parents I'm gay'
Gay Married Men - a support group for gay men married to women - has opened its doors for the first time to the Victoria Derbyshire programme.
Andy, 56, is divorcing his wife after 30 years and four children - she has a new partner.
He says: "I still love her, I'm very close to her. In fact we describe each other as best friends."
Here he describes the reaction of his family when he came out as gay.
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