Learning to live after losing brother in Kashmir earthquake
Pakistan is marking the 10th anniversary of the Kashmir earthquake in which nearly 75,000 people died.
It's a bittersweet moment for BBC Urdu producer Tabinda Kokab.
She was teaching in a remote village close to the epicentre when the earthquake struck.
She suffered personal loss but the tragedy also forced her to break free from society's view of what a woman should be, as she tells Amber Shamsi.