BBC Homepage
  • Skip to content
  • Accessibility Help
  • Your account
  • Notifications
  • Home
  • News
  • Sport
  • Weather
  • iPlayer
  • Sounds
  • Bitesize
  • CBBC
  • CBeebies
  • Food
  • More menu
More menu
Search BBC
  • Home
  • News
  • Sport
  • Weather
  • iPlayer
  • Sounds
  • Bitesize
  • CBBC
  • CBeebies
  • Food
Close menu
BBC News
Menu
  • Home
  • InDepth
  • Israel-Gaza war
  • War in Ukraine
  • Climate
  • UK
  • World
  • Business
  • Politics
  • Culture
More
  • Tech
  • Science
  • Health
  • Family & Education
  • In Pictures
  • Newsbeat
  • BBC Verify
  • Disability
  • BBC Trending

#MeAt14: Raising awareness around the age of consent

  • Published
    13 November 2017
Share page
About sharing
Alyssa MilanoImage source, @Alyssa_Milano/Twitter
Image caption,

Actress Alyssa Milano posted a picture of herself at 14 years old

Rozina Sini
BBC UGC Hub and Social News

Women and men are posting pictures of themselves when they were younger to highlight how a 14-year-old child is too young to consent.

The social media movement #MeAt14 began at the weekend in response to allegations published in The Washington Post, external against Alabama senate candidate Roy Moore, who has been accused of pursuing a 14-year-old girl when he was 32.

The Republican firebrand has vehemently denied the allegations, branding the report as "completely false."

The controversy escalated when Fox News host Sean Hannity became mired in a debate over the use of the word "consensual", in regards to the accusations, on his radio show. However, Hannity has since apologised, saying he "misspoke".

Twitter users have been posting the term #MeAt14 alongside pictures of themselves in their early teens and asking rhetorically how a child of 14 can be mature enough to give consent.

The first person to tweet the hashtag was North Carolina Lawyer Catherine R L Lawson, late on Thursday evening. It has since been used more than 50,000 times.

This X post cannot be displayed in your browser. Please enable Javascript or try a different browser.View original content on X
The BBC is not responsible for the content of external sites.
Skip X post by Catherine R L Lawson

Allow X content?

This article contains content provided by X. We ask for your permission before anything is loaded, as they may be using cookies and other technologies. You may want to read X’s cookie policy, external and privacy policy, external before accepting. To view this content choose ‘accept and continue’.

The BBC is not responsible for the content of external sites.
End of X post by Catherine R L Lawson

She told the BBC: "I shared a picture of me at 14 to illustrate there is no acceptable version of this story; teenagers can't consent to a relationship with a grown man, ever.

"It's not a question about the legal age of consent, but about affirming a shared social value that children deserve our protection."

The legal age of consent is different for each state in the United States, ranging from 16, which is the minimum, to 18.

The movement began to gain momentum when Daily Show co creator Lizz Winstead tweeted a picture of herself asking: "Who were you at 14?" and asked others to do the same.

This X post cannot be displayed in your browser. Please enable Javascript or try a different browser.View original content on X
The BBC is not responsible for the content of external sites.
Skip X post 2 by Lizz Winstead

Allow X content?

This article contains content provided by X. We ask for your permission before anything is loaded, as they may be using cookies and other technologies. You may want to read X’s cookie policy, external and privacy policy, external before accepting. To view this content choose ‘accept and continue’.

The BBC is not responsible for the content of external sites.
End of X post 2 by Lizz Winstead

People began changing their profile pictures and sharing their #MeAt14 stories in response.

"This is me at 14. I was in the Glee Club and an art student. I made ribbon barettes and I babysat on weekends," replied one Twitter user, external.

Another tweeted, external: "If she still needs a permission slip for a field trip, she cannot consent."

This X post cannot be displayed in your browser. Please enable Javascript or try a different browser.View original content on X
The BBC is not responsible for the content of external sites.
Skip X post 3 by Marie Delus

Allow X content?

This article contains content provided by X. We ask for your permission before anything is loaded, as they may be using cookies and other technologies. You may want to read X’s cookie policy, external and privacy policy, external before accepting. To view this content choose ‘accept and continue’.

The BBC is not responsible for the content of external sites.
End of X post 3 by Marie Delus

You may also like:

  • Student's 'sexual predator' list names professors

  • The all-female groups discussing harassment

  • Can a Facebook friend request be 'harassment'?

This X post cannot be displayed in your browser. Please enable Javascript or try a different browser.View original content on X
The BBC is not responsible for the content of external sites.
Skip X post 4 by Sandra Londino

Allow X content?

This article contains content provided by X. We ask for your permission before anything is loaded, as they may be using cookies and other technologies. You may want to read X’s cookie policy, external and privacy policy, external before accepting. To view this content choose ‘accept and continue’.

The BBC is not responsible for the content of external sites.
End of X post 4 by Sandra Londino

While another posted, external: "I like the #MeAt14 hashtag, but we live in dark times if women have to provide photographic evidence to prove children deserve a childhood."

High-profile figures have also tweeted the hashtag, including actress Alyssa Milano, who was behind the prominent #MeToo social media campaign in which she asked victims of sexual assault to come forward in a show of solidarity.

  • Hollywood holds #MeToo march against sexual harassment

  • 'I asked if I could kiss her' - one man responds to #MeToo

  • How 'MeToo' is exposing the scale of sexual abuse

This X post cannot be displayed in your browser. Please enable Javascript or try a different browser.View original content on X
The BBC is not responsible for the content of external sites.
Skip X post 5 by Alyssa Milano

Allow X content?

This article contains content provided by X. We ask for your permission before anything is loaded, as they may be using cookies and other technologies. You may want to read X’s cookie policy, external and privacy policy, external before accepting. To view this content choose ‘accept and continue’.

The BBC is not responsible for the content of external sites.
End of X post 5 by Alyssa Milano

And TV personality Katie Couric posted, external: "I was eating a lot of chocolate chip cookie dough and learning to do the 'hustle' and not worrying about a 32-year-old man trying to hustle me."

More on this story

  • US conservatives back accused firebrand

    • Published
      10 November 2017
    Republican candidate for the US Senate in Alabama, Roy Moore
  • Things Republican Roy Moore believes

    • Published
      12 December 2017
    Roy Moore
  • Moore's triumph has Republicans reeling

    • Published
      27 September 2017

Top stories

  • Trump orders India tariff hike to 50% for buying Russian oil

    • Published
      20 minutes ago
  • Soldier in custody after five shot on US military base

  • The secret system Hamas uses to pay government salaries

    • Published
      5 hours ago

More to explore

  • On Ukraine's front line, twisted wreckage shows sanctions haven't yet stopped Russia

    Dymtro Chubenko stands in front of a pile of Russian missile and drone parts
  • Oceangate's Titan whistleblower: 'People were sold a lie'

    David Lochridge in a submersible looking out at an underwater reef
  • Debt, delays & desperation - how Sheff Wed crisis impacts fans

    • Attribution
      Sport
    Sheffield Wednesday fan Gaz Robinson talks to the BBC
  • Carol Kirkwood: Why weather forecasters (like me) often appear to get it wrong

    Carol Kirkwood presents the weather forecast
  • Hiroshima: Ceremony marks 80th anniversary of atomic bombing

    Attendees offer flowers during the Peace Memorial Ceremony on the 80th anniversary of the atomic bombing of Hiroshima
  • Violent Channel smuggling gang's French and UK network exposed by undercover BBC investigation

    A composite image of two men involved in the people-smuggling gang. On the left is a colourful picture of Abdullah in France, holding a phone to his ear and wearing a body warmer and baseball cap. On the right is a young man wearing a green sweatshirt, filmed on a UK train station concourse.
  • Russian attacks on Ukraine double since Trump inauguration

    Donald Trump imposed over the BBC Verify colours and branding. Beside him is a cut out of a strike on the Ukrainian capital Kyiv.
  • Propaganda or fair warning? Taiwanese TV show imagines Chinese invasion

    A Taiwanese woman with long black hair and dressed in a grey coat screams in shock as a bomb explodes in the building behind her. In the background you can see a large cloud of smoke billowing out of the building as people run and duck for cover.
  • Future Earth newsletter: Get exclusive insight on the latest climate news from Justin Rowlatt

    Future Earth promo
loading elsewhere stories

Most read

  1. 1

    Guests rejected by Airbnb host because they're from Wales

  2. 2

    British man accused of trying to drown daughter-in-law in US pool

  3. 3

    The secret system Hamas uses to pay government salaries

  4. 4

    Trump orders India tariff hike to 50% for buying Russian oil

  5. 5

    MasterChef returns with sacked hosts but without their jokes

  6. 6

    Airport runway reopens after emergency landing

  7. 7

    Could RFK Jr's move to pull mRNA vaccine funding be a huge miscalculation?

  8. 8

    France wildfire is 'catastrophe on an unprecedented scale', says PM

  9. 9

    British woman sentenced over Thai drugs smuggling

  10. 10

    Wrong remains from Air India crash 'adds to trauma', says family

BBC News Services

  • On your mobile
  • On smart speakers
  • Get news alerts
  • Contact BBC News

Destination X

  • Your latest reality TV obsession has landed on iPlayer

    • Attribution
      iPlayer
    Destination X
  • Rob Brydon welcomes you to Destination X

    • Attribution
      iPlayer
    Destination X
  • Get on board and play along at home

    • Attribution
      Game
    Destination X Game
  • Where the X are they off to next?

    • Attribution
      iPlayer
    Destination X
  • Home
  • News
  • Sport
  • Weather
  • iPlayer
  • Sounds
  • Bitesize
  • CBBC
  • CBeebies
  • Food
  • Terms of Use
  • About the BBC
  • Privacy Policy
  • Cookies
  • Accessibility Help
  • Parental Guidance
  • Contact the BBC
  • Make an editorial complaint
  • BBC emails for you

Copyright © 2025 BBC. The BBC is not responsible for the content of external sites. Read about our approach to external linking.