Bereaved 'forgotten' in plans to ease lockdownpublished at 15:02 Greenwich Mean Time 24 February 2021
Alex Regan
BBC News
People who have lost loved ones have been "forgotten" in plans to ease lockdown in England, a funeral director has said.
Matthew Lymn Rose, who runs Nottingham-based funeral directors A W Lymn, said it was "alarming" to hear pubs would reopen before restrictions are eased for funerals.
Currently up to 30 people can attend a funeral outdoors, and that number is not set to rise until at least 21 June, when a decision will be made on "whether all limits can be removed on weddings and other life events".
On 12 April non-essential retail, hairdressers, and outdoor hospitality venues can reopen. The number of people who can attend wakes will increase from six to 15 people, but the amount of mourners at a funeral will still be limited to 30 people.
Mr Lymn Rose said: "It is truly alarming to hear that the bereaved are being given such little focus in the plan to reopen society.
"This disease has killed thousands of people up and down the country – almost every family has been touched in some way by Covid-19.
“And yet, despite the fact that so many people are grieving, the rule of 30 at funerals is going to be one of the last restrictions to be lifted. This really does not make sense to me.”
Mr Lymn Rose, whose company operates 27 funeral homes across the East Midlands, said although he understands the logic of restricting indoor funeral services, he does not understand why the same applies to outdoor funerals.
"It is part of what makes us human, to demonstrate our emotion for a lost loved one by coming together at a burial and sharing a silence of remembrance," he said.
"I don’t see how standing in a wide, open space – like the majority of cemeteries are – is any more of a risk than going to a supermarket or a pub."
He has called on the government to reconsider the cap on outdoor funerals to reduce "additional distress and turmoil" caused to grieving families.
A government spokesperson said: “Throughout the pandemic our priority has been to ensure the deceased are treated with dignity and respect and that the bereaved have the opportunity to mourn.
“Restrictions on funerals and commemorative events following a person's death aim to balance the needs of the bereaved, while minimising the spread of Covid-19 to mourners and staff.”