Rabbi urges Jewish community not to visit dying relativespublished at 16:44 British Summer Time 20 April 2020
Thomas Mackintosh
BBC London News
A Rabbi from Finchley used her sermon yesterday to urge the Jewish community not to visit dying relatives in hospital.
Her comments come after Health Secretary Matt Hancock said he would give permission to people visit critically ill family members if it were practical to do so.
Rabbi Miriam Berger said "compassion is not always the best leadership" adding that people should not be forced to choose to say goodbye to a loved one or to be honest about their health and vulnerability to coronavirus.
"Not giving people impossible choices is sometimes much fairer," Rabbi Berger said.
"Don’t make a spouse in their 80s make the choice as to whether they come to the hospital to say goodbye.
"Don’t make people choose whether to be honest about if they think they may pose a risk in the hospital or the crematorium.
"Too many of us we will choose wrongly, we will go and say goodbye, letting emotion take over in those heart breaking moments.
"Many hospitals are ignoring Hancock and maintaining a no-visitor policy but if you or someone you now finds themselves given this terrible choice please, please prioritise yourselves and all those living and know that a life time of kisses, handholding and kind wise words will always be more powerful than any final ones can be."