Care home wedding widow pays tribute to husbandpublished at 10:39 British Summer Time 26 August 2021
BBC Radio Derby
A woman has paid tribute to her husband who died four months after they got married at a care home in Derby.
Before the wedding, at Abbeydale Nursing Home, Pauline Thomas described Jeff as her second "soulmate" after already losing her first husband.
She was with Mr Thomas for 18 years and said she will remember him for his "“kindness" and his "beautiful nature".
"I'm up and down and trying to process it," Pauline said.
"I'm finding it very hard to be honest - I didn't think I would this time after losing Jack before, but it was quite quick at the end and I wasn't there.
"I'd gone home and when I came back he was gone."
She said Jeff had taken her children in as his own and would do anything for her if he could.
The couple spent several weeks without seeing one another during the pandemic as care homes were not allowing visitors.
Mrs Thomas said she still feels sad about the time they missed together.
They got married in April with care home staff helping to organise the ceremony.