But Forest were furious at Tottenham's conduct and at the time they insisted they had not given Spurs permission to speak to Gibbs-White and were willing to go to whatever lengths required to prevent the transfer taking place.
Gibbs-White and partner Britney also welcomed their second child in the summer and the ex-Wolves midfielder needed to prioritise them.
"We train and play football but everybody has a personal life. Everybody has things going on in their personal life. You might have something going on now, but you're still showing up to work and do your work.
"That's exactly what I have to do. It's all about trying to deal with what's at home as well as trying to apply yourself every day to be the best that you possibly can.
"It was just a really stressful time, for me personally, for my family.
"In reality, your family is everything, and you have to put them first. And that's a decision I made, I had to put them first, and focus on what was right at the moment, and that was being with my wife and my new-born son."
Gibbs-White is expected to return for Forest's Europa League game with Midtjylland on Thursday, their first European game at the City Ground since 1996, after starting on the bench in Saturday's defeat to Sunderland.
He added: "After everything what we've been through together and knowing we were back in Europe, I really wanted to continue that journey.
"The fans are going to be incredible. That was a big reason as to why I wanted to stay."
Postecoglou on Murillo fitness, 'special' nights and a 'very demanding' spellpublished at 17:29 BST 1 October
17:29 BST 1 October
Millie Sian BBC Sport journalist
Nottingham Forest boss Ange Postecoglou has been speaking to the media before Thursday's Europa League game against FC Midtjylland at the City Ground (kick-off 20:00 BST).
Here are the key lines from his news conference:
Oleksandr Zinchenko will not be available due to soreness in his groin. It is "nothing significant" but he probably won't be back in contention until after the international break.
Murillo is available after training over the last few days. The defender completed his "first solid block of training" since picking up his injury, so will be ready for selection.
He anticipates a "cracking atmosphere" at the City Ground, as the club hosts its first European match in nearly three decades. Postecoglou added: "European nights always seem to be a little bit more special. The fans will get themselves up for it because it is something different and unique."
It is a "privilege" for him to lead the team out in Europe, but he highlighted that Steve Cooper and Nuno Espirito Santo were the key figures that helped the club reclaim its European status. He added: "I'm just the beneficiary of that and I don't take that lightly."
The club will be treating the Europa League as a "separate entity" to the Premier League this season. He explained: "It challenges you in different ways and you meet opponents you don't know very well. If you're dismissive of that then you fall into a trap."
On FC Midtjylland, he said: "I know a fair bit about them and I have experience playing against them from Celtic. They have a very clear identity of football. They are very reliant on being physical, on their set pieces and on being really direct. You know what you're getting when you play them."
The Danish club enjoy "playing vertical football, getting from one end of the pitch to the other very quickly, and testing their opponents with their size".
It is "only natural" that people are eagerly awaiting his first win as manager. He explained: "When you've been on a run like ours, things like this become a little more prevalent in people's minds. But we've got to trust in the process and the results will come."
When asked about rotating his side a fair bit since coming in, he replied: "It has maybe disrupted our fluency a little bit, but it means we have a decent base for all our players through this next block of games. We are going to need that because this block will be very demanding, we'll be playing every three or four days."
The players recognise everything is moving in a "positive direction" but Postecoglou wants them to "get the rewards for their hard work" sooner rather than later, in the hope that it will also ignite some momentum.
The positives before European football returns to City Groundpublished at 11:50 BST 1 October
11:50 BST 1 October
Nick Mashiter Football reporter
Image source, Getty Images
Ange Postecoglou is under no illusions as he seeks his first win as Nottingham Forest boss.
Being winless in five games is not ideal but the situation is far from the point where the former Tottenham manager should be under any serious pressure as he himself adjusts to a new environment and new players.
Aside from the 3-0 defeat at Arsenal there have been positive signs that his philosophy could bring fast results once it clicks.
Last week's Europa League draw at Real Betis should be viewed as positive, despite the hosts' late equaliser, and the visit of FC Midtjylland on Thursday represents another chance to get off the mark, with Postecoglou facing the media on Wednesday.
It is Forest's first European game at the City Ground since the Uefa Cup quarter final second leg defeat to Bayern Munich, where the eventual winners won 5-1.
There will be a sense of occasion - and victory would help erase the frustration following Saturday's Premier League defeat by Sunderland.
The expectation on Forest this season has naturally grown after last season's seventh-place finish and £180m summer spend.
So it is understandable why there may be anxiety among supporters, especially after failing to beat the Black Cats.
It has not fallen into place for Postecoglou yet, but Sunderland goalkeeper Robin Roefs made six saves as Forest tried to recover and Chris Wood missed a golden opportunity to level in the second half - the type he would have taken last season.
Green shoots are there but Postecoglou has already conceded winning is the most important thing.
Three potential factors inhibiting Postecogloupublished at 10:56 BST 1 October
10:56 BST 1 October
Ellie Molloson Fan writer
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When we signed Ange Postecoglou, we were promised a winner - an experienced manager who has won trophies repeatedly, ended Tottenham's 17-year trophy drought by earning their first European title in 41 years.
Given Forest's sudden re-entrance into European football, on paper Ange sounds like a perfect fit. But to quote Brian Clough: "Unfortunately, the game [is] played on grass."
Postecoglou remains winless after five games and has only managed one point in the Premier League and one in the Europa League. To make matters worse, Forest were knocked out of the Carabao Cup by Championship side Swansea City and most recently lost at home to newly promoted side Sunderland. Many of us are beginning to ask how can this be?
There are three potential factors at play: Injuries, contrasting play style, and individual error.
Last season, Forest were lucky and faced little to no injuries. However, since the new manager was appointed three weeks ago, two of our back four, Ola Aina and Murillo, are both out injured. While we can see the significant impact this has had to our defensive stability, this alone cannot justify the results.
Secondly, key players such as Chris Wood are facing an individual slump in performance. After Brentford, Wood had a 100% conversion rate, but in the past three games, he did not convert any of his chances.
Finally, a new playing style is being implemented without any pre-season for players to adapt. Ange plays an attractive style of possession-based football, deploying a high line and inverted full-backs to overwhelm the opposition's midfield.
This is a stark contrast to Nuno's strong defensive approach, which prioritised efficiency over possession by using quick counter-attacks to score.
Will time be enough for players to adapt? Or does he need to move away from his signature style?
Who will replace Wilson and Pedro as heads of recruitment?published at 14:35 BST 30 September
14:35 BST 30 September
Nick Mashiter Football reporter
Who will replace Ross Wilson and Pedro as heads of recruitment has been a topic sent in via our 'Ask about Nottingham Forest' form.
We are still waiting for confirmation Ross Wilson is going to become Newcastle's new sporting director but it is widely expected the Scot will move.
He enjoys a good relationship with Eddie Howe and PIF, the Saudi Public Investment Fund, and Newcastle's owners have tracked him since his time as Rangers sporting director.
With global head of football Edu officially arriving at Nottingham Forest in the summer a switch to the Magpies represents a fantastic opportunity for Wilson, Forest's chief football officer.
Pedro Ferreira, Forest's head of recruitment, has been linked with a return to Benfica if Noronha Lopes is elected as the club's new president next month.
In terms of replacements, one name stands out but of course there will naturally be other candidates.
Mark Lawwell spent two years as Celtic's head of first-team scouting and recruitment, working closely with Ange Postecoglou when the pair were at Celtic Park together.
Lawwell spent 10 years with the City Group, becoming head of scouting and recruitment within the global structure which includes Manchester City, Girona and Yokohama F Marinos.
He worked closely with Postecoglou at the Japanese club and followed the Australian to Glasgow in the summer of 2022 but left in March last year.
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